Although daily motivation and inspiration are important and highly beneficial; alone, they simply lack the power to create or enable lasting success. In fact I will go so far as to say motivation without self-discipline is discouragement waiting to happen.
Motivation is the internal condition that activates behavior and gives it direction; it energizes and directs this goal-oriented behavior. But it is self-discipline that persists in the behavior long after the rush of enthusiasm has faded away. Self-discipline requires diligent action according to your goals rather than just how you feel at that moment.
I would say one the most valuable gifts one could share would be teaching the art of self-discipline.
It is self-discipline that will take anyone from being a slave to being free. It has been said, “the undisciplined are slaves to moods, appetites and passions”. It is the undisciplined who ultimately lack the freedom that comes with possessing particular skills and abilities.
Self-discipline is freedom. So lets talk about ways to develop it.
- First you need to decide what behavior best reflects your goals and values. You can then discipline yourself according to what you have decided is best, regardless of how you feel in the moment. This will require an honest self-analysis of who you are and what your values and your purposes in life are. The best way to do this would be to write down your dreams and goals. Short term and long term. Like your own personal mission statement. Remember “A goal properly set is halfway reached.” ~Zig Ziglar
- Then just as important you need make a conscious decision to follow through on what you say you’re going to do. Both when you said you would do it and how you said you would do it. This is the key to seeing your project through to completion when the initial rush of enthusiasm has faded away. You can even keep track of how you do on these commitments, so you can stay accountable. “What gets measured gets improved”.
- Train your mind to recognize the difference between what is disciplined and what is not disciplined behavior. This way you will know when you are stepping out of bounds or going in a wrong direction. It is important as you go after your dreams to know the difference and correct yourself consistently. This will help you create these good habits that will lead you toward your goals. As you develop your self-discipline, being aware of these differences will help you make decisions that are in better alignment with your goals and values. “The real test in golf and in life is not in keeping out of the rough, but in getting out after you are in.” Ok that was good ol Zig Ziglar again.
- Be a good coach to yourself. Encourage and reassure yourself when the going gets tough. Remind yourself why you are doing this. Reinforce your commitment to what lies ahead. When there is doubt or lack of motivation or any of the wrong emotions creeping in, be your own motivational speaker. Remind yourself that the price of discipline is always less than the pain of regret.
- Finally, have courage to face the challenges that lie ahead. Developing self-discipline is a great and worthy challenge. The flesh and its appetites and moods are powerful forces to go up against. Recognizing this will help you find the courage it will take to face the challenge. As you progress you will gather small and private victories that will enhance your self-confidence and build on this courage.
Remember, “Success is the doing, not the getting; in the trying, not the triumph. Success is a personal standard, reaching for the highest that is in us, becoming all that we can be.” – Zig Ziglar
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